Sunday, February 15, 2009

Relationship sermon

Well thought that it would be good if we post about the relationship sermons which we have been learning so far. Well, today learn about the 5 Most Basic Needs that we both Man and Women have which is conducted by survey on 25,000. Each of us have a love bank which we called it Bank A, B and C. In Bank A, when we love our spouse more it will be an example +500 love units. In Bank B, when we love our spouse less we give it an example value of +5 love units. In Bank C, when we hate and don't like to see our spouse it would give an example value of - 300 love units. In this we are going to see the 5 Basic Needs that both the Man and Women need.
First of all we are going to talk about the
Women needs,
1. Affection

  • Women's like it when we are being showed care and love.
2. Conversation

  • conversation is a key to success of relationship.
  • Womenrequires VERBAL ATTENTION.
  • Women also requires 15hr/wk.
3. Honesty and Openness

  • Trusting and lasting relationship is very important.
  • Know everything from the inner most feelings.
  • Don't give information which are vulnerable.
  • Say accurate and always be the truth
  • Be open to good and bad feelings.
  • Be open about fears.
  • Man always shoulder the family burden together.
  • Irrepayable in this relationship can cause harm into it.
  • Man always say the truth to Women.
  • Women require emotional stability.
The first 3 points for the women is more on sounds.
5 Major Areas
a) Weight Control
b) Make up

  • Even before eve was created makeup was already present for centuries.
c) Hairstyle

  • Women please be presentable do not use old hairstyle when you are still young.
d) Clothes that you wear

  • Women please be fashionable.
e) Cosmetic Surgery

  • Women this is the last result.
  • Our body is the temple of god so when any area is broken down it has to be fixed.

Next we are going to talk about the Man's needs,

1. Sexual Fulfillment

  • This is god's creation for man.
2. Recreational Companionship

  • Man requires 15hr/wk of undivided attention .
  • *Couple together stays together*.
3. Attractive Spouse

  • Women remember that the most important person is at home.
  • Please do not let yourself loose after you get married.
  • Doll yourself up.
  • This is to give the Man emotional stability.

Joyce(: